The standard dress code for servants-nurses is a black gown or robe, with the sundial headdress accessory. Staff are allowed small-sized earrings with these outfits.
If the sundial crown is not to your liking, you can also wear the "Gold Laurel" shown in the male example.

Male Example Dresscode Example:

Nurses to Nobles wear black and gold robes or dresses, they are allowed to wear dangling or small golden earrings and are permitted to wear the Black & Gold Noblewoman's Veiled Headdress, although this is optional

The left and right heels are the only staff members granted permission to wear white and gold.
To show your purity you must wear a white and gold dress or robe.
They must also wear the "Bramble Headdress Piece"

This is a perfect example of what not to wear.Items that are forbidden are;layered clothing (3D Clothing) Furry items, (anthromorph),
oversized glasses and shades,messy hair covering eyes,rthro limbs,headless head (any heads beside narrow,woman, and normal head)
particles accessories, (celeb bling, etc)
any animations besides, stylish,bubbly,rthro and superhero idle, purses, capes etc.